Why You Need to Ghost Everyone (Including Your Mom) to Succeed
Why You Need to Succeed FAST or Risk Losing Your Desired Reality FOREVER.
October 6 , 2024
Jay Chris
"But...Jayyyyyy." Shut up.
Let’s be real: 99% of people out there have mental software that’s outdated, buggy, and full of viruses.
And guess what? The last thing you want when you're trying to level up is for that glitchy programming to rub off on you.
This is why, if you want to succeed, you need to ghost everyone, even your mom (don’t worry, she’ll understand).
It’s not that the people in your life are bad, it’s just that most of them have no clue how to win at the game of life.
So before you get sucked into their world of negativity, doubts, and energy-draining habits, here’s why you need some serious alone time.
The World Is Full of Losers (Statistically Speaking)
It’s harsh, but true.
The majority of people aren’t living their dream life.
They’ve been programmed by a society that rewards mediocrity, fear, and playing it safe.
And if you’re serious about success, hanging out with these people is like diving into a pool with weights around your ankles.
People tend to reflect their inner world onto others. Meaning, if someone is stuck in a rut, they’ll project that onto you. You’ll hear the “realistic” advice:
- "You sure you want to start a business? Most fail."
- "Maybe you should stick with your secure job."
- "Why don’t you take it easy and enjoy life?"
Yeah, thanks for the input. But how’s that working out for them?
The thing is, most people are terrified of your potential.
Your success threatens the illusion they’ve built around comfort and security.
That’s why you need to protect your energy like a dragon guarding treasure.
Silence the Noise, Amplify Your Vision
When you’re alone, you’re in control of the narrative.
You don’t have Karen from accounting whispering her fear into your ear.
You’re free to focus on your vision and, more importantly, hear your own thoughts.
Here’s the truth: success requires a different operating system.
One that thrives on discipline, focus, and a clear mind.
Solitude is the ultimate software update. It lets you reboot from societal programming and install the mental upgrades you need to win.
- Alone time is where self-doubt dies and self-belief grows. When you’re not hearing everyone else’s limiting beliefs, your own potential becomes crystal clear.
- Solitude fuels creativity. Some of the most genius ideas come when your brain has the space to think without interruptions.
Think of it like planting a tree. You don’t want it surrounded by weeds, right? You want it in fertile soil where it can grow tall and strong without competition for nutrients.
You are that tree.
People Will Drain You Before You Even Realize It
Energy is everything.
If you’re constantly surrounded by people, especially those stuck in their limiting mindsets, you’ll find your energy getting sapped before you even notice.
One minute, you’re super motivated and on top of the world.
The next, after one too many coffee dates with your pessimistic friend, you’re second-guessing everything.
Success requires focused, uninterrupted energy. And the more you hang around people who aren’t on the same journey as you, the more you leak energy.
It’s like trying to fill a bucket with a hole at the bottom, no matter how hard you try, it just keeps draining out.
Solitude = Superpower
History is filled with examples of successful people who intentionally spent time alone.
Einstein often took walks by himself to think.
Steve Jobs was known for his "thinking retreats."
Why?
Because in solitude, you not only sharpen your vision, but you also strengthen your willpower. When you’re comfortable being alone, you stop needing external validation.
The world’s noise no longer impacts your decisions. You stop caring about what the masses think, and start caring about what you think.
This is where you gain your cosmic edge. It’s in the silence of solitude that the Universe starts to whisper back to you. The ideas, the inspiration, the clarity you need to manifest your desired reality. t all starts here.
Time to Ghost Everyone (For Now)
Now, I’m not saying you need to disappear into the mountains and become a monk. But here’s the deal: you need to spend time alone if you want to succeed.
Not just to avoid other people's negativity, but to strengthen your own mind, your own belief system, and your own energy.
The Winners Know When to Ghost
Look, the reality is: the winners aren’t afraid to be alone.They know that true power comes from within. They ghost people strategically—not out of arrogance, but out of necessity.
You want to be successful? You want to win? Then go ahead and ghost everyone for a while. Your future self will thank you. You’re not just doing this to avoid the losers—you’re doing this to become the winner they’ll all wish they could be.
And when you’re ready to reappear, you won’t just be another player in the game.
You’ll be a damn boss.
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